Stress is a part of life, and eliminating it is a fool’s errand. If you ever succeeded in eliminating all stress, your life would be boring and you’d have removed yourself from anything meaningful.
That said, too much stress can be toxic. It can negatively affect our sleep, our health, our relationships, and our happiness. If your stress levels are high on a regular basis, it’s like having a smoking habit—it will take its toll over time.
1. Relaxed State of Being
In each moment, we can be constricted and tight, or relaxed and open. Which are you right now? Can you breathe more deeply and allow yourself to relax and open?This state of relaxed being is always available to us, but we have to recognize when we’re in a constricted state—and take responsibility for bringing ourselves to the open state. It’s a practice, and the more that you consciously put yourself into this state, the easier it becomes.
2. Breathing Practice
When you’re stressed and feeling in a constricted state, take a moment to breathe deeply into your belly. It can have an immediate and profound effect on your physiology and state of mind.When we’re constricted and stressed, our breathing is shallow. Few things can send us into a fight-or-flight state as quickly as a lack of oxygen. Deep breathing tells the deeper layers of our body, including our cells, that we’re safe. It helps to move your nervous system into a more relaxed state.
3. Simplify and Prioritize
Our lives are filled with endless choices and commitments, and simplifying can be liberating.Take a step back and evaluate your responsibilities. What truly matters? Can you reduce your commitments, put certain things on the back burner, or let them go completely so that you have less on your plate?
Find clarity between what’s essential and what’s merely adding to your stress. Learn to say no to tasks that don’t align with your priorities. Embrace the beauty of a simplified schedule, allowing space for spontaneity and relaxation.
4. Nurture through Nature
Nature has an innate ability to soothe our minds and restore our spirits. Spending time outdoors—walking or otherwise being active—each day can have a profound impact on our stress levels.5. Awe and Gratitude Practice
While you’re out in nature, open yourself to a sense of something bigger.Stress levels are high when we’re too focused on the disaster that we feel is in front of us, but when we’re open to a sense of the wider world, it lets some of that stress melt away. When we practice awe at the world around us, it helps us to open up.
Likewise, when we remember what we have to be grateful for, we feel a sense of appreciation for life. Practicing gratitude and seeking the awe-inspiring experience of nature can change your life.
Remember, reducing stress isn’t about eliminating challenges from your life, but about changing your relationship with them. By integrating these practices into your day, you can build resilience and find beauty in the midst of chaos.
Start small, be patient with yourself, and allow these habits to gradually transform your experience. As you embrace mindful breathing, simplify your life, and reconnect with nature, you’ll find that stress loses its grip, making way for a more serene and fulfilling existence.